It doesn’t matter if you’re a man, a woman, or anything in between. As you follow your journey through kink and fetish, you’re going to come across the subject of anal training. It can be anal training for your partner or it can be anal training for you. It’s going to happen and you’re going to have to make a decision on whether or not you want to pursue it.
The reason that anal sex plays such a significant part in kink is the reason that kink exists in the first place. A kink is something beyond the ordinary and vanilla that people enjoy. It’s a need for something more than the usual that drives people into kinky behavior and the hole you’re using is a major part of that. It’s not strange for a woman to desire pleasurable sensations in a part of her body that she’s not supposed to. It’s the same for men. You want to experience the other person in a whole new, and much more intense way. That’s why anal sex is going to come up and anal training is a way to both exert and feel control while training your body to do something that it’s not designed for.
What is Anal Training?
So, first up, let’s get the definition of anal training out of the way. It’s going to make it much easier to get into when you know what’s in store for you. Simply put, anal training is the act of getting the anus ready for sex. It’s exactly what it sounds like and it’s something that’s important to carry out before you start using an asshole like a Fleshlight. It’s not designed to be fucked so you have to train it to take a penis or a sex toy like a pussy.
This means stretching it out with different devices until it’s elastic enough to be used by another person. The most typical way to do it is by using progressively larger toys to get to a point where anal sex is pleasurable and not completely painful. It’s important to keep in mind that you can cause a lot of injury if you try to simply jump into anal penetration. It can take up to six weeks to fully train an anus for sex and you must be patient with it. It’s going to make the sex much better in the long run.
History of Butt Plugs
Naturally, those devices you use are going to be butt plugs or something similar. If you want to make sure that you’re using the right tools for the job, then you can get an anal training kit. These are collections of three or four butt plugs that get bigger as you graduate from one to the next. Butt plugs actually got their start as a medical device, so they’re designed to carry out the task for which you’re using them.
The first butt plugs showed up in the early 1900s. They were created by Dr. Young, and he used them to treat a few different ailments, none of them being pain during anal sex. Shoving a butt plug up your ass was supposed to cure headaches, insomnia, bad breath, acne, anemia, anorexia, hemorrhoids, nervousness, irritability and a few more conditions. He was so sure that sticking something up your asshole would cure acne and bad breath that he said, “the few failures… are due to neglect to use them.” So, if you have a headache or can’t sleep, it’s your own fault for not having anything in your ass.
Getting Started
When you make the decision to start your anal training, there are a few things you can do to get ready. The first is to make sure you have plenty of lubricant. Get something water-based so you don’t have to worry about ruining your new plugs. There are also lots of lubes that also work to numb your anus at the same time. It may sound like a good idea, but you want to stay away from them at first. If you can’t feel pain, then you’re very likely to cause damage while you’re body is trying to tell you that it’s too much.
There are lots of anal training kits, so it won’t be hard to find one. Just get one that you can afford, and you shouldn’t have any problems with it. They all work pretty much the same so there won’t be any surprises. Just be ready to spend a lot of time with them. You have to be consistent and willing to keep the plugs in, even when you’re out in public. They’re very easy to hide under your clothing so no one has to know that you’re preparing your rectum for lots of sex.
How to Insert a Butt Plug
Now it’s time to think about how you’re going to insert your butt plug for the very first time. The last thing you want to do is just force it in there. You want to be relaxed and you want to take your time. If you’re inserting the plug into someone else, then you have to pay very close attention to their reactions. If you’re getting any signs of pain, then it’s time to stop. Make sure there’s plenty of lube and add more at the first signs of resistance. Here’s a step by step guide:
1. Place the tip of the butt plug against your anus with minimal pressure.
2. Take a deep breath and begin to increase the pressure as you exhale.
3. Insert the plug slowly, aiming for around an inch or so inserted over the course of 3 to 4 minutes.
4. If met with resistance, which is normal, gently remove the butt plug, apply more lube, and try again.
5. If it goes in easily, you can start again, repeating these steps with the next size up in your kit.
It doesn’t have to get any more complicated than that.
Common Risks of Anal Sex
It’s important to understand the risks associated with anal sex, as long as you don’t let them stop you from enjoying it. There are risks to anything you do and anal sex is just one more of them. One of the biggest is bacterial infection. It’s possible to cause small tears in the lining of your rectum and that’s going to be a haven for bacteria. That’s why you always want to use lots of lube when you do anything to your ass. It will lead to less tearing and less risk.
The next thing to keep in mind is that anal sex comes with an increased risk of sexually transmitted infections. In fact, it comes with the highest risk possible, more than oral or vaginal sex. That’s because the anus is more likely to tear and create an opening for the infections to enter your body. The most common infections are chlamydia, hepatitis, HIV, gonorrhea, and a few more. That’s why it’s always important to practice safe sex. It’s something you should be doing anyway, so just keep it up and treat it like any other kind of sex that you can have.
Have fun
So, that’s pretty much it. Anal sex can be a lot of fun and one of the most intimate acts that you can share with someone else. There are plenty of things that you can do to get your body ready for it. Just take your time and make sure you’re putting the work into it. The better prepared for it you happen to be, the more fun it will be for you. Don’t refuse to do it just because it’s something new. Give it a shot and you’ll open up a whole new world of sexual pleasure!